Be A Man And Tell Her How You Feel, Damn It! Three Tips That Strengthen...
On a recent full moon I was in a grumpy mood, sleeping in my home office, unable to connect with my wife. I’m sometimes like that around the full moon, either slightly off and not as outgoing and...
View ArticleThree things you can do to make America great … again.
Having difficult discussions with your fellow Americans can help close the rifts that keep us divided. If America is broken, it has been for some time. Our need for safety on whatever side of the...
View ArticleEven the Best Days Skiing Can Be the Worst Days of Marriage
Three tools that men can use to recover from marital face-plants I’m pretty sure that my wife and I got to the bottom of the mountain thinking that a divorce was eminent. Okay, I’m being a little...
View ArticleHow losing track of your values can screw up midlife, and how reclaiming them...
Before I became a coach for men in midlife I never gave much thought to my values. Don’t worry, my internal conscience, Jiminy Cricket, has kept me morally on the straight and narrow. By values I don’t...
View ArticleIt’s Not Her, It’s You
Midlife relationship Are you being truly seen in your relationship in midlife? Is your partner understanding who you are, the man that you are? If not, why not? Have you been holding back your true...
View ArticleA Glue That Binds – Strengthening Men’s Relationships in Midlife
It was a powerful weekend, the third retreat for my men’s group this year. With each retreat it feels like I reach into new layers of understanding and push through more of my self-inflicted fears and...
View ArticleA Midlife Awakening to a Grandfather’s Gift
How Tales From the Past Spark Adventures of the Future Last night was probably the last night I will get to spend with my grandfather. We sat at the dinner table as we often did in the evenings during...
View ArticleWaking Up at Midlife – It Could Happen to You Too
I spent much of my adult life living under the spell of a deceit. I thought that I was being myself, living my truth, living life on my terms … The adventure begins When I was in my mid-twenties I...
View ArticleIn Midlife, Sometimes the Hardest Words Are “No Thank You.”
How we can use our multiple brains to make difficult decisions I’ve been wracked with needing to make a decision about something for over a week. I’ve been struggling to reconcile multiple parts of my...
View ArticleFind Your Breath And You Find Your Life
I love participating in workshops. If I didn’t live up in Alaska, which is unfortunately a workshop wilderness, I’d probably be completely broke from being a workshop junkie. Here’s the thing, what I...
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